At 21 weeks I am definitely feeling pregnant. My belly is sticking out more and all I wear are maternity clothes. I know this is normal, but it's taking a little more adjusting for me to deal with my body looking different. The best thing husbands can do is to constantly remind their wives how good they look. Even if we don't believe it - keep saying it, and when you think you've said it enough - that's when we might actually start to feel better about ourselves. My husband is pretty good about telling me - but I never get tired of hearing it(HINT, HINT)!